How Not to Treat Your Friends with Cars
The offer of gas money shows positive intent, but the money doesn’t automatically justify a ride at any time....
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Is It a Problem That My BF Lacks Ambition?
By Jessica Lanyadoo Hi Jessica, My boyfriend is in his early 20s and a bit younger than me, but doesn’...
Are My BF’s Personal Politics a Deal Breaker? — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
Hi Jessica, My boyfriend is one of the most thoughtful people, and he makes me blissfully happy. We have the...
My Boyfriend’s Female BFF is in Love With Him — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
By Jessica Lanyadoo Hi Jessica, My boyfriend and I have a bit of a tumultuous relationship. He bought me a...
Why Try to Fall in Love When Everyone Breaks Up?
Does it ever seem like all long term relationships are doomed in one way or another? My parents are divorced. My friends’ parents are divorced. Everyone is divorced....
Can You Trust Online Daters To Not Be Players? — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
By Jessica Lanyadoo Hi Jessica, I recently moved to LA from New York. The main reason for the move was...
Why is My BF Partying With Other Women? — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
By Jessica Lanyadoo Dear Jessica, The other night my boyfriend and I were loosely discussing his birthday. He informed me...
How to Tell a Racist Friend, “That’s Not OK” — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
Hi, Jessica. I made friends with someone I assumed was quite open-minded based on the depth of our conversations. We...
FLOWCHART: Should You Move In Together? — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
By Isla Bell Murray Thinking about moving in with someone special? We knew it! Since cohabitating with a significant other...
This is Exactly the Type of BF You Should Leave
By Jessica Lanyadoo I’ve been with my boyfriend for about six months now and have known him for three...
Should I Quit This Emotionally Unavailable Dude?
By Jessica Lanyadoo Hi Jessica, For the past year I was involved with an emotionally unavailable man. We were never...
Should I Just Dump My Judgy Friend? — The Bold Italic — San Francisco
Hi Jessica, One of my oldest friends has been getting on my nerves and I don’t know how to...