How Not to Treat Your Friends with Cars
The offer of gas money shows positive intent, but the money doesn’t automatically justify a ride at any time....
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Is It a Problem That My BF Lacks Ambition?
My boyfriend is in his early 20s and a bit younger than me, but doesn’t have a career path....
Are My BF’s Personal Politics a Deal Breaker?
My boyfriend is one of the most thoughtful people, and he makes me blissfully happy....
My Boyfriend’s Female BFF is in Love With Him
My boyfriend and I have a bit of a tumultuous relationship. He bought me a (non-engagement) ring after we’d been together about 10 weeks, and we’ve gone through two iterations of living together in just over a year....
Why Try to Fall in Love When Everyone Breaks Up?
Does it ever seem like all long term relationships are doomed in one way or another? My parents are divorced. My friends’ parents are divorced. Everyone is divorced....
Can You Trust Online Daters To Not Be Players?
I recently moved to LA from New York. The main reason for the move was for a change of pace, and to start fresh in a new place....
Why is My BF Partying With Other Women?
The other night my boyfriend and I were loosely discussing his birthday. He informed me “Jane’s” day of birth was coincidentally within days, so why not celebrate them in unison....
How to Tell a Racist Friend, “That’s Not OK”
I made friends with someone I assumed was quite open-minded based on the depth of our conversations....
FLOWCHART: Should You Move In Together?
Thinking about moving in with someone special? We knew it!...
This is Exactly the Type of BF You Should Leave
I’ve been with my boyfriend for about six months now and have known him for three years....
Should I Quit This Emotionally Unavailable Dude?
For the past year I was involved with an emotionally unavailable man. We were never an official couple although I wanted more, and I settled for the pittance of attention and, frankly, phenomenal sex just to get by....
Should I Just Dump My Judgy Friend?
One of my oldest friends has been getting on my nerves and I don’t know how to bring it up with her (or if I should at all)....