DTF and My Sex Life Sucks: What I Learned from Attending a Sex Positivity Workshop
I know I’m not the only one who has felt repressed by “normal”...
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How to Dress Local at Outside Lands
San Francisco’s Outside Lands is the thinking-festival-babe’s weekend of music and art....
I Took One of San Francisco’s “Weirdest” Classes, Lockpicking for Ladies
Kristin Parke knows not to play with handcuffs unless she has a key within easy reach....
Posting a Group Photo on Your Online Dating Profile Is Stupid, According to Science
Here’s a common online dating scenario: I’ll see a blurry group photo of the back of a bunch of rock climbers’ heads or a playa-party pic showing mask-clad Burners and think, “Which one is he? Is that his sister or his polyamorous companion?” Then I’ll scratch my head and sweft....
Is Pokémon Go the New Killer Dating App?
First dates are awkward. What the heck are you supposed to talk about when you know only 300 characters about your date?...
I Peed Standing Up for a Week. The Results Were Messy
I tinkled while the shower sprinkled. I probably peed on myself but cannot confirm. I pissed myself in ideal conditions....
Queen Heklina Tells You Where to Party This Pride Weekend
One of San Francisco’s most well-known drag queens, Heklina, certainly knows who’s hosting the best parties on Pride weekend....
The Best Place in Oakland to Watch the Warriors Win
For the perfect viewing experience, a bar needs three things: seats, sound and scene....
May Is Masturbation Month: My Adventures with Erotic Visualization Audio
As a single female resident of the Bay Area who’s in her later 30s, I agree with Alana Massey’s sentiments, expressed in her article “The Dickonomics of Tinder,” that “dick is abundant and low value.” [1] I also believe that I’m not having enough orgasms....
Oakland Is One of the Most Dangerous Places in the World If …
Donald Trump dissed us in the New York Times yesterday when he mentioned Oakland alongside Iraq, Ferguson and Brooklyn as being one of the most dangerous places in the world....