How I Started Working in Porn (Accidentally)
It’s not every day that you accidentally find yourself in a porn studio. OK, so I hadn’t taken a wrong turn while looking for a parking meter and wound up on the set of Debbie Does Dallas....
SexA collection of 60 posts
I Moved to San Francisco, and My Dating Habits Did a 180
Context, timing and money matter, no matter how often we tell ourselves they don’t....
Nine Unspoken Sexual Fetishes of San Francisco
Douchebaggeophilia: Sexual fetish for men in their 20s who already own a house, work in start-ups funded by daddy’s money and have an undeserved sense of accomplishment....
Should You Hook Up with Your Friend? A Flowchart
A flowchart for a decision nobody should be making at one in the morning....
How Do I Get Past the Fact That My Partner Gave Me an STI?
Advice needed: I recently started dating an amazing guy that I’m very into (yay!)....
Not Bragging: SF is #1 in Syphillis
San Francisco tops a public health ranking that nobody wants to lead....
I Hooked Up with My Neighbor
When Jessie moved into the apartment above mine in a light-blue two-story Victorian near the Panhandle, I didn’t know she was married....
NSFW: Drone-Filmed Porn Was Made in SF
Drones and pornography have finally met, and the result was shot in San Francisco....
Is It a Problem That My BF Lacks Ambition?
My boyfriend is in his early 20s and a bit younger than me, but doesn’t have a career path....
The Year I Went Without Sex
Being single means having unattached sex with multiple partners whenever available, right? To varying degrees, yes, it does, but for me it meant being celibate — for an entire year....
Should I Quit This Emotionally Unavailable Dude?
For the past year I was involved with an emotionally unavailable man. We were never an official couple although I wanted more, and I settled for the pittance of attention and, frankly, phenomenal sex just to get by....
Infographic: What Dating on Tinder Is Really Like
The swiping, the openers, the conversations that die on arrival. Tinder, charted....