An Oakland Eye-Contact Party Is More Intimate Than an Orgy
What I saw when I stared into a complete stranger’s eyes....
SexA collection of 60 posts
The Trouble with Dating a Coworker
You’ve been warned...
I Lived above an Illegal Massage Parlor
Or, Unhappy Endings in the Inner Richmond...
How to Have Coitus at Coit Tower
Part III of our Sex in Weird Places series...
Craigslist Casual-Encounters Ads I’d Consider Answering
Most of the time, looking at penises turns me on. When I don’t have the real thing in my face, I sometimes peruse the Casual Encounters section of Craigslist....
How to Have Sex at the San Francisco Zoo
Once you claim your territory, remember the importance of the warm-up. The eagle doesn’t fly without first fluffing its feathers, nor does a lion embark on the hunt without sharpening its claws....
The Tinder Sagas: How Tindering in LA Led to the Wildest Night of My Life
How my search for “the one” ended up in a night with “the two”...
DTF and My Sex Life Sucks: What I Learned from Attending a Sex Positivity Workshop
I know I’m not the only one who has felt repressed by “normal”...
How to Have Sex on a Duck Boat Tour
Though the SF division of Ride the Ducks International has closed, we think you’ll find this guide works just as well in any city with duck-boat tours....
Nine Pokémon with Inexplicably Sexual Attributes
Maybe Pokémon Go was made by a bunch of horny dude-bros, or maybe the original designers back in the ’90s were naïve about the potential for innuendo in their creations....
Dildo or Date? A Cost-Benefit Analysis
What’s more satisfying—getting pleasure from yourself or others?...
May Is Masturbation Month: My Adventures with Erotic Visualization Audio
As a single female resident of the Bay Area who’s in her later 30s, I agree with Alana Massey’s sentiments, expressed in her article “The Dickonomics of Tinder,” that “dick is abundant and low value.” [1] I also believe that I’m not having enough orgasms....